How to Choose a Boudoir Photographer You’ll Love

So—you’re thinking about booking a boudoir session (amazing!), and now you’re wondering, How do I choose the right photographer for this kind of vulnerable, personal experience?

It’s a really good question. Because boudoir isn’t just about pretty pictures. It’s about trust, comfort, safety, and being seen in a way that feels authentic and empowering. Whether you’re doing this for yourself, for a partner, or just because you’re ready to reclaim your confidence—you deserve to work with someone who truly gets you.

Here are a few key things to look for when choosing a boudoir photographer you’ll absolutely love:

1. Look Beyond the Portfolio - Feel the Vibe

Of course, the photos matter. You want to love their editing style, how they work with light, and how they pose different body types. But beyond that, ask yourself: Do the people in their photos look confident, safe, and real?

Look at the energy in their work. Does it feel stiff and over-posed, or does it feel like the person in the photo is comfortable in their own skin? That vibe speaks volumes about how the photographer shows up in their sessions.

2. Read the Testimonials (and Between the Lines)

Client reviews can give you the inside scoop on what it's really like to work with someone. Look for feedback that goes deeper than “the photos were great.” What you want to see are stories about how people felt during their sessions. Were they nervous and then put at ease? Did they feel celebrated, not judged? Did they leave the session feeling like a total goddess?

That’s what makes the difference.

3. Ask About Their Approach to Body Positivity

Boudoir is for every body. Full stop. A truly aligned boudoir photographer should know how to pose, light, and photograph all body types in a way that honors the individual, not just a specific beauty standard.

Don’t be afraid to ask:

• Do you have experience photographing bodies like mine?

• How do you help clients feel confident during the session?

• What's your approach if I’m nervous or feeling self-conscious?
  

Their answers will tell you a lot about whether they’re the right fit for you.

4. Gauge the Energy During the Consultation

If you’re able to hop on a call or even chat via email before booking, pay attention to how the interaction feels. Do you feel seen and heard? Do they answer your questions with empathy and patience? Are they rushing you to book or taking the time to understand your “why”?

Your photographer will be your hype woman, director, and safe space during this experience. That connection is everything.

5. Know What’s Included (and What You’re Actually Getting)

Boudoir pricing can vary, and it’s totally fair to ask what’s included in a package. But here’s the truth: you’re not just paying for photos—you’re investing in an experience that has the power to shift how you see yourself.

When a photographer includes wardrobe guidance, expert posing, emotional support, professional retouching, and heirloom-quality artwork—that’s worth its weight in gold. Make sure you know what’s included so there are no surprises, but also understand the value of what you’re getting.

You Deserve a Photographer Who Sees the Real You

Boudoir is a celebration. Of your strength. Your softness. Your power. Your story.

Choosing a photographer you love is the first (and most important) step toward creating a session that leaves you feeling confident, seen, and maybe even a little transformed.

If you’re ready to explore what this experience could look like for you, I’d love to invite you to book a discovery call.  There’s zero pressure—just a chance to connect, answer your questions, and see if we’re a great fit. Let’s make something beautiful together.

Let’s chat — book your call here.